Custody Disputes
Parents who are going through a divorce or ending a nonmarital relationship want what is best for their children. An adversarial court proceeding where each party must promote their position while tearing down the other side’s arguments is usually not the best way to promote harmony and cooperation as parents and children start the next phase of their lives. Mediation is a popular alternative to litigation among parents as they seek to establish appropriate child custody terms. Mediation puts the dispute resolution process in the hands of the parents who are in the best position to make the right choices. Kathleen at Campbell Mediation and Services will guide parents towards a consensus that both parents can get on board with.
Frequently Asked Questions
Yes! Though New York judges are required to make decisions on child custody that are in the best interests of the child, mediation ensures that mothers and fathers are in control of the factors that will affect the ultimate parenting plan. Going through court can be a lengthy process, mediation can get started right away. This can give parents and children a reliable and enforceable custody plan sooner. Mediation can set the tone for your relationships going forward. You and your ex may have parted ways, but you still need to be able to communicate and cooperate to make decisions for your children.
Yes. You can agree to terms of child support, spousal maintenance and any other facet of a divorce decree through negotiation, mediation or collaborative methods. In fact, it’s a good idea to reach an agreement on support matters without litigating if the agreement is fair to all parties involved. New York courts follow guidelines for support matters. The court will review any agreement that is reached regarding child support or spousal support to make sure it adheres to the best interests of the child or the needs of the recipient spouse in terms of spousal support. You have a right to deviate from the formula as long as you show you have knowledge of the law.